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Old 05-23-2010, 09:40 PM
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The affectionate to sex parts

Sorry for the title, I meant to change it, but couldn't.

Anyway I always wondered about the timing of when 2 people go from getting to know each other to affectionate, then to the intimacy. How many dates did it take? I know its not a number and I know its when 2 people feel comfortable that they do this, but exactly at what point does it start being comfortable to do so?

I see in movies all the time, it's like virtually the same day, all of this happens, but in real life, how long did it take for your partner(s) to start smuggling kisses, hugs, show affection before getting down to the nitty gritty? Is it the same in real life as in the movies??

Just curious is all. I always wondered this in reality how long to 2 people finally show physical affection for one another. I am imagining the casual sex or one night stands are different?

Sorry but none of these have happened to me before so was just wondering. Thanks

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Old 05-23-2010, 10:02 PM
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it varies for everyone. i doubt that people are gonna come up in here and give you more details than that.

but jeeeeeez yougc, one thread was enough. don't you have people in real life that you can talk to about dating and relationships?
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Old 05-23-2010, 10:11 PM
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Sorry for the title, I meant to change it, but couldn't.

Anyway I always wondered about the timing of when 2 people go from getting to know each other to affectionate, then to the intimacy. How many dates did it take? I know its not a number and I know its when 2 people feel comfortable that they do this, but exactly at what point does it start being comfortable to do so?

I see in movies all the time, it's like virtually the same day, all of this happens, but in real life, how long did it take for your partner(s) to start smuggling kisses, hugs, show affection before getting down to the nitty gritty? Is it the same in real life as in the movies??

Just curious is all. I always wondered this in reality how long to 2 people finally show physical affection for one another. I am imagining the casual sex or one night stands are different?

Sorry but none of these have happened to me before so was just wondering. Thanks
If you're not walking it on in there in under 10 minutes you are just the most pathetic loser ever.

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Old 05-23-2010, 10:30 PM
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If you're not walking it on in there in under 10 minutes you are just the most pathetic loser ever.

Thank you for posting on GreekChat and goodnight.
*choke* LMAO
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Old 05-23-2010, 10:39 PM
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No. I have never been in a relationship before. Nor am I around anyone who does or can ask this or I wouldn't ask on here. I was just curious. I have no idea what any of your answers mean.
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Old 05-23-2010, 10:46 PM
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Hopefully not long, especially if it is True Love. Seriously, kiss the first night you meet someone. That is how to tell if anything is there or not anyway.
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Old 05-23-2010, 11:04 PM
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yougc how old are you?
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Old 05-23-2010, 11:22 PM
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I'm in my mid 30's.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:26 AM
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I'm in my mid 30's.
erm....and you have NO ONE to talk to about relationships? you have to resort to random strangers?

*mute*
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:30 AM
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and...at this point there will be no more responses to this thread from me.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:31 AM
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Troll.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:33 AM
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yup, the scent is wafting to my nostrils. lol.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:33 AM
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go to bed.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:35 AM
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get some head.
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Old 05-24-2010, 12:37 AM
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kill em dead
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