so confused about this...help!

[jjen]

alright so I'm a freshman who didn't rush at Alabama. Well I realized I wanna be in a sorority, and called the greek office and said if there was going to be any COB that I would be interested. Every chapter at bama made quota so I figured this wouldn't happen.

Well, they called me about a week ago and told me AOII would be having an informal recruitment in the spring. but...they made quota....

so heres my dilemna, the AOIIs I know are sweet girls, fun, and I would have no problem hanging out with. just not sure if its the right sorority for me completely. Well I was thinking maybe it wouldn't hurt to atleast try. My question is if I'm not sure its the right sorority for me should I go through with it? or should I wait till fall? Also, if they give me a bid and I don't accept it, can I still rush in the fall?

heres the second part of my question. everyone has been telling me rushing in the fall as a sophomore is not bad and its worth doing. but...my fear is I will only be exposed to my pledge class, who would be almost all freshman. all the swaps are for freshman, and i would perfer to make friends in my own grade. so is it likely as a sophomore pledge I can become close to the sophomore actives?

thanks!