Should I call this guy?

nucutiepie · #1 09-23-2001, 06:15 PM

First off sorry I havent posted in a while! College is such a crazy awesome fun time!

Last night I was at this party and I met this guy who reminded me a lot of my HS boyfriend - except hes older (21) and into the fraternity scene (my ex bf was VERY unsupportive when I decided that I want to rush) and an overall great guy. He gave me his #, so now - should i pick up the phone???

KillarneyRose · #2 09-23-2001, 06:39 PM

It's just my opinion, but I definitely think you should give him a call!

kdgirlie · #3 09-23-2001, 06:39 PM

I do not see why you would not call but definately wait a few days, so you do not seem over eager. oh yeah and be careful of freshmeat guys. (-- but I dated an older guy when I was a frosh and he was perfectly fine.)
have fun and good luck

TigerGirl52 · #4 09-23-2001, 10:15 PM

GO FOR IT!!!! He wouldn't have given you his number if he didn't want you to make that call!!! Let us know how it goes!!!!

Allison

valkyrie · #5 09-24-2001, 12:25 AM

Of course you should call!!!

James · #6 09-24-2001, 12:49 AM

Call tomorow and invite him to do something . . .

I'm not sure I would be interested if a girl called 2 days or so later . . . or at least not as interested as I was.

IF I liked her, or found her attractive I would accept any reasonable invitation, or turn around and make a counter offer, if I didn't like her or find her attractive (sober) I wouldn't

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SparkliiQTMTSU · #7 09-24-2001, 01:30 AM

You should definitly give him a call. Just invite him to go hang out sometime. Be casual about it. Let us know how it all goes.

Nichole

Jeff OTMG · #8 09-24-2001, 10:58 AM

Decide first if you want to talk to him or see him. That will make the decision on whether or not to call him pretty easy.

James · #9 09-25-2001, 05:14 PM

Did you call him yet? It doesn't get easier the longer you wait . . .

DeltaBetaBaby · #10 09-03-2007, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by James

Call tomorow and invite him to do something . . .

I'm not sure I would be interested if a girl called 2 days or so later . . . or at least not as interested as I was.

IF I liked her, or found her attractive I would accept any reasonable invitation, or turn around and make a counter offer, if I didn't like her or find her attractive (sober) I wouldn't

.

Really? You would lose interest in two days? Oy. I got digits last night, and I am deciding what to do with them. Especially because he told me to call him for his help on something, and I can't decide if it is innocent or not.

Oy, I am too old for this.

jon1856 · #11 09-03-2007, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

Really? You would lose interest in two days? Oy. I got digits last night, and I am deciding what to do with them. Especially because he told me to call him for his help on something, and I can't decide if it is innocent or not.

Oy, I am too old for this.

OP posted 9/23/2001.

Kevin · #12 09-03-2007, 12:51 PM

DBB -- how in the heck did manage to dredge this up from 6 years ago?!

DeltaBetaBaby · #13 09-03-2007, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevin

DBB -- how in the heck did manage to dredge this up from 6 years ago?!

My hungover brain is not functioning so well...I think a better question is why I would take advice from James

Infamous12 · #14 09-04-2007, 12:01 PM

I don't give my number out, so I'd prefer to have the guys give their number.

I make them either write it down or say it so that I remember it. I HATE taking my phone out and being so obvious with the number exchange.

However, If I really like you though, I'll call/text your phone or hand you my business card when we part ways.

PrettyBoy · #15 09-05-2007, 01:08 AM

I never had the guts to ask for a phone number. I've always been in shy mode, I just can't seem to shake it.