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Old 09-03-2007, 12:51 PM
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DBB -- how in the heck did manage to dredge this up from 6 years ago?!

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Old 09-03-2007, 12:59 PM
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DBB -- how in the heck did manage to dredge this up from 6 years ago?!

My hungover brain is not functioning so well...I think a better question is why I would take advice from James
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Old 09-04-2007, 12:01 PM
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I don't give my number out, so I'd prefer to have the guys give their number.

I make them either write it down or say it so that I remember it. I HATE taking my phone out and being so obvious with the number exchange.

However, If I really like you though, I'll call/text your phone or hand you my business card when we part ways.
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Old 09-05-2007, 01:08 AM
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I never had the guts to ask for a phone number. I've always been in shy mode, I just can't seem to shake it.
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Old 09-05-2007, 12:59 PM
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if he hands you his business card with cell written on the back and then you get all happy and show your friends then yes you should call because otherwise he's all WTF
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Old 09-05-2007, 01:04 PM
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Since this thread is at the top of this forum,

Which is better?

If a guy gives a girl his number.

or

If a guy asks a girl for her number.

Ladies, which method do you prefer?
I prefer that a guy asks me for my number, but i don't mind it when a guy gives me his, I don't have a problem calling (depending how the situation went) and if I like him, but like I said, I would much rather him call me.
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Old 09-06-2007, 12:49 AM
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ivebeen giving my number out and its notworkingout.
but i dont like calling guys either. so there.
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Old 09-06-2007, 01:14 AM
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Its a numbers game. The more you give out your number the more calls you get. And most of the time when they don't call it has little to do with you.

Guys are famous for needing a "reason" to call, other than "just to chat." And if too long goes by before he has a good reason, he figures its too late to call.

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ivebeen giving my number out and its notworkingout.
but i dont like calling guys either. so there.
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Old 09-06-2007, 03:04 AM
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id much rather give my number out. the worst thing that can happen is that you find out youre not interested and hope they lose your number. but then again thats what caller id was invented for!
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Old 09-11-2007, 11:57 PM
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I was going to tell the OP to call him and next time, to give a guy her number. and then I noticed the date!

I have never gotten a guy's number. I think guys should be guys and get my number. If they are interested, they will call. I do agree that some women would rather have the ball in their court so to speak.
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Old 09-15-2007, 11:16 PM
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And most of the time when they don't call it has little to do with you.
How is that? That's why I don't call. Generally I won't if she's the opposite of me.
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Old 09-16-2007, 01:01 PM
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I hate making the first call, I rather he calls me.
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