What are 10 things you look for in a partner?

orderandlaw · #1 06-01-2007, 04:12 AM

Sense of humour-use of sarcasm
Creativity
Industriousness
Kindness
Progressiveness
Unconventionality
Impishness
Sexuality
Beautiful face
Great ass

What are 10 things you look for in a partner?

LeslieAGD · #2 06-01-2007, 06:12 AM

Sense of humor
Inteligence
Honesty
Integrity
Loyalty
Chemistry/Attraction
Kindness
Healthy
Ability to get along with friends/family
Love

Senusret I · #3 06-01-2007, 06:50 AM

1. Out of the closet. Specifically, his family and straight male friends know.

2. Has either a solid career or realistic and tangible career goals.

3. Laid back and easy-going -- not quite nonchalant, but definitely not combative or a lover of pointless debates.

4. Has an appreciation of my activity in my fraternities (and can understand Greek life as a whole).

5. Does not engage in any hobbies or pastimes that harm himself or others.

6. Attractive.

7. Neither old enough to be my father or young enough to be my son.

8. Masculine.

9. Loyal and trustworthy.

10. Independent.

cheerfulgreek · #4 06-01-2007, 06:55 AM

Cute
Honest
Trustworthy
Smart
Creative
Talented
Dresses nice
Christian
Faithful
Ambitious

AlethiaSi · #5 06-01-2007, 09:58 AM

Sense of humour-use of sarcasm
gets along with my friends and family
Intelligent (but also able to be silly and fun)
Cute/ attractive
loyal and trustworthy
honest
Sexual
industrious (like... able to fix things and can/wants to help out)

OneTimeSBX · #6 06-01-2007, 10:07 AM

in no particular order...

hard-working
ambitious
attractive
funny
good father/father figure
mentally sound
knows how to kick back and relax, and buckle down and work
non-judgemental
forgiving
taller than me

Coramoor · #7 06-01-2007, 01:11 PM

No particular order.

1. Girly; I don't want to marry a chick that acts like a guy.

2. Blue Eyes; I have blue eyes, so if our child comes out with brown eyes, I can take appropriate action.

3. Hot Mom; Face it, if a woman's mom is fat...chances are she will get fat also.

4. Able to cook; A way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

5. Healthy; Nice body, stays in shape.

6. Humor; At least enough to laugh at my dumb jokes and make her own up also.

7. Intriguing; I can't define this...just something that draws me to her.

8. Loyal and Honest; Extremely important!

9. Kindness; Willing to help others, not angry or mean to people.

10. Similar Goals; Such as a family, community involvement, traveling, and career goals.

One that would be nice, but not necessary...

11. Rich Family.

KSUViolet06 · #8 06-01-2007, 02:52 PM

In no particular order:

*Sense of humor similar to mine
*Driven & goal-oriented ( he should know where he's going in life)
*Tangible career goals (i.e. not 23 years old and waiting for his band to get their "big break")
*Financial stability (not rich, just able to manage money well)
*Well groomed and put-together in appearance (WITHOUT being totally metrosexual).
*Manly body type (I hate skinny guys who look like they could fit into my jeans)
*A good cook (because I'm not)
*Good decision maker (makes decisions that are benifical to his life like not drinking, doing drugs, or spending money wrecklessly)
*Intelligent (not just in his field, but is also knowledgeable about other things like cars and taxes)
*The kind of guy who takes charge (i.e. he can suggest the plans for the evening instead of saying "whatever you want to do")

PrettyBoy · #9 06-11-2007, 09:33 PM

Hell, I can't break it down to 10, but I'll try.

1. An attractive Christian who walks the talk, loves and respects herself.
2. Honesty
3. Someone who doesn't or hasn't slept around. Basically a non hoe if that's a word.
4. Faithful (hasn't or doesn't cheat. Basically someone who isn't a skank slutty snake).
5. Someone who's not into money
6. Someone without a ragedy sorry weave in her head.
7. Someone who doesn't have fake anything on her body period.
8. Non-ghetto or trashy
9. Someone who doesn't go to clubs or bars.
10. Someone who comes from a close knit family like my own, and loves and respects her parents.

HotDamnImAPhiMu · #10 02-01-2009, 07:47 AM

1. Loves dogs - (I don't want to ever be dogless.)
2. Kind
3. Finds the same things funny as I do
4. Puts the toilet seat down - (it's okay if it's only after I explain to him that my dog tries to drink out of the toilet and we use those toilet cleaner tabs in the back of the tank) (I think this also demonstrates his willingness to compromise on the things that are important to me).
5. Has a good relationship with his parents
6. Humble - (doesn't think he's above the waiter or someone who didn't receive as much education as he did)
7. Runs
8. Can drive a stick shift
9. Reliable
10. Hard worker

WhiteDaisy128 · #11 02-01-2009, 09:37 AM

1. Honest
2. Able to communicate
3. Cares for himself and his body
4. Loyal
5. Desire to be a life-long learner and to consistently improve himself
6. Comes from a family that is supportive of him
7. College educated
8. Stable "adult" job
9. Knows when it is okay to splurge to spend money (I could not live with someone as frugal as myself)
10. Is supportive of furthering my hopes and dreams

WhiteDaisy128 · #12 02-01-2009, 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coramoor

No particular order.

1. Girly; I don't want to marry a chick that acts like a guy.

2. Blue Eyes; I have blue eyes, so if our child comes out with brown eyes, I can take appropriate action.

3. Hot Mom; Face it, if a woman's mom is fat...chances are she will get fat also.

4. Able to cook; A way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

5. Healthy; Nice body, stays in shape.

6. Humor; At least enough to laugh at my dumb jokes and make her own up also.

7. Intriguing; I can't define this...just something that draws me to her.

8. Loyal and Honest; Extremely important!

9. Kindness; Willing to help others, not angry or mean to people.

10. Similar Goals; Such as a family, community involvement, traveling, and career goals.

One that would be nice, but not necessary...

11. Rich Family.

You do realize that if you both have recessive brown, Baby could come out brown eyed or hazel-eyed...

WCsweet<3 · #13 02-01-2009, 09:44 PM

Patience
Respectful
Sense of Humor
Good hygiene
Similar goals
Loves dogs
Able to love me, my friends and my family
Hard working
Reliable
Intelligent

AGDee · #14 02-01-2009, 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WhiteDaisy128

You do realize that if you both have recessive brown, Baby could come out brown eyed or hazel-eyed...

Blue eyes are recessive. A blue eyed person only has blue eyed genes. If two blue eyed people are together, the baby has to have blue eyes.

Brown eyes are dominant. If you have brown eyes, you could have two browns or a brown and a blue. Two brown eyed people or a brown eyed and a blue eyed couple can have kids with blue or brown eyes.

HotDamnImAPhiMu · #15 02-01-2009, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AGDee

Blue eyes are recessive. A blue eyed person only has blue eyed genes. If two blue eyed people are together, the baby has to have blue eyes.

Brown eyes are dominant. If you have brown eyes, you could have two browns or a brown and a blue. Two brown eyed people or a brown eyed and a blue eyed couple can have kids with blue or brown eyes.

This was a nice little lesson in genetics! We really ARE educational here at GC!