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Friends who disappear when they find a boyfriend/girlfriend
I find it incredibly annoying when someone (usually a girl) finds a partner, and cuts off contact with all their friends and sometimes their family.
If a future significant other wants me to spend all my time with them, I would dump them.
1. I would probably get bored of them, eventually. Nothing would make leave quicker, besides abuse.
2. Just because I'm coupled up, it doesn't mean that I'm no longer a friend or a family member. I still have a duty to be there for my friends and family, it's unfair to them drop them for ONE person.
3. What if my significant other dumps me or dies? One or the other will happen eventually. Then, I would have no one to turn to, because I abandoned them when we were together.
4. Isn't this a classic warning sign of potential abuse? A boyfriend or girlfriend who wants to isolate you.
I'm amazed how often I see this, and hear other people complain about it.
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