What does it say in your by-laws?

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Originally Posted by TransferPNM

My husband and I are very well aware of all the time commitments and activities, courtesy of many friends. It is appreciated that so many people are speaking up to make sure this is a good decision, though. He just graduated and accepted a job with a global rotation program next month and will be working out of the country almost 8 months of the year. He is very easy going about not being invited to things.

How old are you, and what is your class standing? Sometimes, marriage itself might not necessarily be the issue, but some people might assume that you are quite a bit older than everyone else or that your priorities are (much) different due to marriage.

Originally Posted by TransferPNM

I honestly think I would be more concerned about a member with a new boyfriend than a husband. In those situations, they may refuse to go a day without seeing each other and follow each other around like little dogs - haha.

Originally Posted by TransferPNM

I apologize, it was just a joke. It's a popular way every body from where I am from discusses puppy love.

Originally Posted by TransferPNM

Local joke. Apologies. I have deleted it. Sorry for any offense.

I'm sorry, but what exactly is "local" about your "joke"?