While in da club... - Page 3

KAPPAtivating · #31 05-20-2006, 11:57 AM

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Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
I never leave home without my cash monies.

In case of emergency, I always carry enough cash for a cab ride home or if anything else comes up.

I don't DEPEND on men to buy me drinks, but since he's offering...who am I to turn him down. As long as I follow him to the bar and stand beside him and watch him and the bartender with my sinful beverage, it's cool.

But he BET NOT think that just because he bought me a drink that means I'm all his. Negro, you are like a styrofoam cup- disposable!

So I have question, are these dudes that you are generally attracted to, or is it any dude that offers to buy you a drink? But if you're saying, "OOOhhh, I sure am thirsty." Is that dude offering or is he being coaxed. I am curious to hear the women's perspective!

#32 05-20-2006, 12:21 PM

Well for me, it's anyone I see who is buying a drink at the bar. No attraction is necessary.

I don't go to the club empty handed, but I usually wait a little while to see if anyone is gonna offer me a drink. If it doesn't happen, then I just go get one myself.

Sometimes you have to coax on the sly. Example: If you see a guy buy a drink, say "Hey, what is the name of that drink?" or "OOh, that looks quite tasty!" But the trick is you have to look really interested. Maaaan, you'd be surprised how many dudes fall for that stuff!

I miss my clubbin days.

PerfectVerse06 · #33 05-20-2006, 07:52 PM

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Originally posted by KAPPAtivating
So I have question, are these dudes that you are generally attracted to, or is it any dude that offers to buy you a drink? But if you're saying, "OOOhhh, I sure am thirsty." Is that dude offering or is he being coaxed. I am curious to hear the women's perspective!

Ugh, I NEVER come out and ask for a drink. Just not the type of person that I am.

So I can't imagine telling some random dude, "Oooooh, my throat is SO parched. What ever will I do???" *bats eyelashes and blushes*

I don't like leading guys on that have no chance in getting anywhere with me, because it's wrong to deceive someone in that manner. Plus, the dudes who are sub par tend to be the very annoying and possessive ones and I'm not trying to deal with that when I go out.

BUT, if a decent guy offers me a drink, I'd take it. Usually the drink leads to talking and the talking leads to me finding out pertinent information LIKE "Well, I have 4839572972 kids" or "I'm separated from my wife right now". THAT information causes me to exit, stage left!

Boom_Quack13 · #34 05-20-2006, 09:45 PM

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Originally posted by marquise1911
What annoys you the most in the club???

1. Cigarette smoke
2. Nasty boys
3. Too much noise

Boom_Quack13 · #35 05-20-2006, 09:57 PM

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Originally posted by marquise1911
I don't know about y'all, but it annoys me when we as greeks think it's cool to stroll or partywalk in the club. That's not why I paid to get in here and I'm sure no one else paid to be pushed out of the way and have their bump and grind interupted by a line of sweaty dudes.

The only time I see Greeks strolling at a club is when it's a Greek-sponsored party or university party.

KAPPAtivating · #36 05-21-2006, 12:06 AM

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Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
Ugh, I NEVER come out and ask for a drink. Just not the type of person that I am.

So I can't imagine telling some random dude, "Oooooh, my throat is SO parched. What ever will I do???" *bats eyelashes and blushes*

I don't like leading guys on that have no chance in getting anywhere with me, because it's wrong to deceive someone in that manner. Plus, the dudes who are sub par tend to be the very annoying and possessive ones and I'm not trying to deal with that when I go out.

BUT, if a decent guy offers me a drink, I'd take it. Usually the drink leads to talking and the talking leads to me finding out pertinent information LIKE "Well, I have 4839572972 kids" or "I'm separated from my wife right now". THAT information causes me to exit, stage left!

I feel ya, PV06, what cha' sippin' on tonight..my treat

whiteandblack · #37 05-21-2006, 01:38 AM

when you have a nice quick conversation with a guy and they try to monopolize your time all night and you can't ditch 'em. I hate that shi$!

Dionysus · #38 05-21-2006, 12:36 PM

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Originally posted by Boom_Quack13
3. Too much noise

Then what are you doing in clubs, lol? Loud music is a given. That's one of the reasons why I prefer bars now. There's usually music there too, but it doesn't nearly bust out your eardrums like club music does.

Boom_Quack13 · #39 05-21-2006, 12:51 PM

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Originally posted by Dionysus
Then what are you doing in clubs, lol? Loud music is a given. That's one of the reasons why I prefer bars now. There's usually music there too, but it doesn't nearly bust out your eardrums like club music does.

I'm not a clubbing type chick. The reasons I stated were reasons that I don't go. lol

ImSoNUPEY · #40 05-23-2006, 12:07 AM

Being a Neo I'm usually in tha Klub with my Dean and I hate when dudes look at us for not wearing white tees and gold grillz....All I got to say is....It's the Brothersssss, u Know, the NUPES...lol

blueGBI · #41 05-23-2006, 05:34 AM

I hate...

1. Nasty old men trying to grind with me. I don't do old men, K.I.M.
2. That one drunk kid who's trying to dance but can't, bumping into everyone one. I really hate it when its the club and they're trying to dance like they're at a rave.
3. B*4535* blowing smoke in my face. Oh hayle naw!

When I go out and drink, I have a short temper so my friends keep a close eye on me to make sure I don't get into a fight and beat someone down.

nonchalant · #42 05-23-2006, 07:33 AM

1. Overly crowded clubs
2. Bad bartender/drinks
3. Someone asking to sip my drink or to buy them one
4. Sweaty Betty's
5. People that dance with you and can't keep up
6. People that can't get the hint that you don't want to dance with them nor talk to them
7. No booty music**im ghetto**
8. Greeks that take over the floor by strolling at a non-greek function.
9. Fights/Shoot outs
10. Overcharging to get in
11. Holding line out to make club seem live inside when no one is in there**Club 112**
12. Smoke

I too live in Atlanta. I prefer the bar/house party scene. My spot is Barnacle's in Lithonia. I've also done Dudley's. I haven't clubbed since January. I'm young but old spirited. I'm very much the homebody.

I'm very blunt and honest with mine. There will be no game playing with me. I usually walk in and buy a drink.**absolute and cran** That let's them know I'm a drinker. Usually after that, I don't have to ask, bat lashes, wink, etc. Offers just come most times. On my slow nights, someone may try to sit at the table with me or holla at me and I say, 'Not without a drink you won't.' I may also see a cute man buying a drink and I'll say, 'Where mine?' I'm just too ghetto, but it always works cuz I'm cute and they love my attitude. You know you got it going on when you booty shaking hard as hell with drink in hand and haven't wasted a drop.

bobbyearl93 · #43 05-23-2006, 10:59 AM

Here are Bobbyearl's club responses:

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Originally posted by nonchalant

**absolute and cran** That let's them know I'm a drinker.
That's what they made MORE absolute and cran for... THE DRINKERS

On my slow nights, someone may try to sit at the table with me or holla at me and I say, 'Not without a drink you won't.'
Now that I think about it. I could use a drink. I'll take a Hypnotic and Hen (Hulk)... thanks.

'Where mine?'
I guess it's still behind the bar. The club doesn't close for another hour, so you still have time.

"You know you got it going on when you booty shaking hard as hell with drink in hand and haven't wasted a drop.
You must not be shaking your booty hard enough, girl.

OK, WE PRETEND LIKE WE WON'T. IF SHE'S A DIME, WE WILL DO IT!

PerfectVerse06 · #44 05-23-2006, 10:59 AM

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Originally posted by KAPPAtivating
I feel ya, PV06, what cha' sippin' on tonight..my treat

Look at that, you're offering me a drink and I didn't even have to ask....proves my point perfectly LOL!!!

I'll take a Centerfold, please...

KAPPAtivating · #45 05-23-2006, 11:01 AM

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Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
Look at that, you're offering me a drink and I didn't even have to ask....proves my point perfectly LOL!!!

I'll take a Centerfold, please...

My rule of thumb...never let an intelligent woman pass me by...lol