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08-14-2000, 12:38 AM
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I'm not so sure that you can't be in love with two men at one time. But, I ask this, "How do you fine two men that are worth being in love with?" I have a hard enough time trying to figure out why I was in love with my ex bf. LOL
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Kymberleigh
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08-13-2000, 03:07 PM
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*smiling* Ahem, ladies, dirty minds aside... No, not true love. When you truly love someone that way, you simply cannot love someone else the same. When you truly love someone, your feelings and emotions are wrapped up in that one person, and you don't have the desire to look at anyone else.
Usually when people say they love two people at once, they're not in true love. They may love one quality about one person, and love something else about the other. For example, Mr. A is very smart and conscientious and represents stability, while Mr. B constantly makes her laugh and represents fun. See the difference? The problem is, they fail to realize that with a little patience and perserverance, you can find both qualities (hard as it may be) in one person.
Besides, the latter choice is a lot less tiresome, --- who has the time to keep up with all of those lies?
Mocha, I don't think many men will answer this post for fear that it may incriminate them... 
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08-15-2000, 12:43 AM
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i had a really dirty mind...plus i read the question wrong.... :0
i will go back to my corner now
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08-15-2000, 12:49 AM
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Quote:
Originally posted by MaMaBuddha:
i had a really dirty mind...plus i read the question wrong.... :0
i will go back to my corner now
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LMAO! Shoot.....I have no shame! 
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08-14-2000, 09:05 PM
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Oooh, what are ya'll talking about in here? All I see is "dirty minds...." Tsk, tsk 
Anyway, yeah I think it's possible to love 2 people at the same time (I've been in that situation before). But I don't think you can be in love w/ 2 at the same time. I know that as picky as I am, that would be one thing I would not be able to achieve.
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08-14-2000, 10:38 PM
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I agree that a person may love certain qualities in "John" and others in "Joe", but wouldn't it be possible for "Mary", under similar circumstances, to fall in love with "John" as she already has with "Joe"? I believe falling in love is something that just happens (sometimes we aren't even aware that our feelings are actually "going there")...but because it's not a conscious decision we make...i.e. "Hey! I think I'll fall in love with______ today."....it can happen without us realizing it. And, since we can't very well turn our feelings on and off like a light switch, "Mary" could have been in love with "John" for, let's say, a couple of years...and here comes "Joe" she falls in love with him. Of course this wouldn't make her automatically fall out of love with "John"....thus, she'd be in love with two men. I hope this made sense...I don't know if I worded it the exact way I had it in mind.
[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited August 14, 2000).]
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08-18-2000, 03:28 PM
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I believe that you can be in love with two people at the same time. Love is dynamic and does not exist on one plain. That is what enables us to love more than one person in different and equally unique ways. Being in love is no different.
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08-18-2000, 11:09 PM
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I understand what you're saying Mocha, but when you truly love someone, I really don't believe you can "fall in love" with someone else. You might fall in "lust", but not love. Now it's possible to love someone in different ways ***time out*** Mama go back to your corner***... meaning, you may love someone as a "friend" or care about them, but again, that's a different type of love. If someone falls in love with someone else, I truly believe (been there -- done that)that once they evaluate their feelings, they'll find that either they really don't love the first person in the way that they thought, or they've fallen out of love with them and are just afraid to let them go.
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01-12-2007, 04:07 PM
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What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?
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01-12-2007, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by kstring10232004
What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?
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pretty much you're screwed
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01-12-2007, 06:20 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by kstring10232004
What if you are married to one, with a family, and the other has been an ex for several years, but you just can't let go?
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Please give us more details-- we love people to air their dirty laundry on here!!
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06-27-2003, 01:45 AM
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