Two men/women at the same time?

[valkyrie]

Originally Posted by AGDee

How about this... Your first spouse dies. You will always be "in love" with that person, but it doesn't mean you won't also fall in love with someone else again. I think it's totally possible to be in love with two people at once.

I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.

[Munchkin03]

Troof. It seems that if you were "in love" with two people, it would either have to be twins who were duping you, or the "love" was so weak as to be kinda shady.

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by valkyrie

I think that's different. If you're in love with two living people at the same time, you're not really in love with either of them -- or if you are, it's some lame ass kind of love that I wouldn't care to experience.

I think that's really different too - if somebody is dead you shouldn't really be "actively" loving them. (Sounds bad, but I hope you can get what I'm saying.)

[sweetness27]

I think it's possible but not one and the same way!

[Kevin]

Sure I think it's possible. In polygamous households, I'm certain that the head of the household in some cases loves at least some or all of his (or her) spouses.

Do I think it's a little strange? Yeah.. but that's because I'm from a strictly monogamous background. Does strange mean impossible? Nope.