Could I get some advice?

[_Lisa_]

Anyway whitelily, once you are contacted by a GLO who thinks you'll make a valuable member, I'm sure you'll find lots of support here.

[valkyrie]

Originally Posted by Tom Earp

There really are people who are on GC here to be of help.

What kind of "help" do you mean, exactly?

ETA:

Originally Posted by whitelily

I have been getting private messages from people warning me about what I post on here.

I'm wondering why anybody would do this by PM instead of here. What's up with that?

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally Posted by whitelily

Hello all.

I am trying to learn more about the alumni initiation process. I have a specific sorority in mind. I feel that the philanthropy and ideals of this group are reflected in my life. I had a slightly personal connection in college. Although, I never rushed. I was stupid and listened to my boyfriend/ex-fiance who convinced me that I wanted nothing to do with sorority life.

I know there are a lot of people who seek alumni initiation. I don't know many who make it into their desired group, though.

Any encouragement or advice would be appreciated.

Thank you so very much.

whitelily, I would strongly advise you to not discuss your AI pursuit with anyone on GC, even in PMs, except perhaps women who are members of that sorority. People on GC can come off as well-meaning, but many times they are not. Once you are a happily initiated member, if you are lucky enough to get to do so, come back and let us know what happened.

[PenguinTrax]

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Play nice, please.

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