Getting pregnant before marriage - Page 2

Taualumna · #16 05-03-2006, 01:06 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
She will, but she'll have the money to a) go to France for the year and then give it up for adoption or b) pay her fancy Park Avenue doctor for an abortion.

Trust me, LOTS of girls, and probably some you would never expect, find themselves in this situation.

p.s. You can do a Molly double feature with The Pick Up Artist where she Does It in the back of a car with Robert Downey Jr and dirty talks. Midnight Express was less disturbing than that little interlude....

I think wealthy, better-educated girls are also more likely to use contraception.

Rudey · #17 05-03-2006, 01:13 PM

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Originally posted by Munchkin03
Maybe it's that the poorer, probably less-educated, girl is surrounded by people who made that exact same choice and doesn't see anything wrong with it. I think a lot of people see it as, "it was good enough for my parents/grandparents/siblings, and it's good enough for me!"

I never understood it. I mean, it's not hard to not get pregnant.

I think so too. I mean how do you drop out of school with a kid and think it's OK? Or how do you have kids by different fathers and not one father is around? I mean doesn't it suck having to look after all these kids, not going to school, not having anyone for support? So what makes them want to live like that in the trailer parks and places like that?

Yeah there are exceptions. But that's all they are, exceptions.

-Rudey

Rudey · #18 05-03-2006, 01:16 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
She will, but she'll have the money to a) go to France for the year and then give it up for adoption or b) pay her fancy Park Avenue doctor for an abortion.

Trust me, LOTS of girls, and probably some you would never expect, find themselves in this situation.

p.s. You can do a Molly double feature with The Pick Up Artist where she Does It in the back of a car with Robert Downey Jr and dirty talks. Midnight Express was less disturbing than that little interlude....

Abortions are cheap these days. If you want to avoid the doctor you can spend 5 bucks on an over the counter med and get it over with also. The France thing...I mean it's not like they keep them in the woods. If some chick I knew had to drop out of school and was like "Listen party people, I'm taking some time off in Paris and won't take calls or visits" I'd be a little suspicious. There was an awful movie about Irish girls that were forced to live together if they had kids called Magdalene Sisters (it had me depressed for a week).

The Pick Up Artist? Is it funny? I'm not looking for bad 80s drama.

-Rudey

BobbyTheDon · #19 05-03-2006, 01:17 PM

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Originally posted by tld221
can't take you seriously if youre not gonna take yourself (or the scenario in question) seriously.

-tld221
--oh yes, still judging you.

(and i agree with 33girl

Another time, this girl go pregnant when I was a Sr. in HS. The principal dunk tanked her right after we tarred and feathered her. The whole time we screamed, " You're a Hoe bag! CLAP CLAP, clap clap clap! "

-bobby
--I'm judging you back

Rudey · #20 05-03-2006, 01:18 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Another time, this girl go pregnant when I was a Sr. in HS. The principal dunk tanked her right after we tarred and feathered her. The whole time we screamed, " You're a Hoe bag! CLAP CLAP, clap clap clap! "

-bobby
--I'm judging you back

I told you about that guy I knew who made his girlfriend do jumping jacks and punched her in the stomach because she wouldn't abort, abort, abort the mission right?

-Rudey
--He's probably in Sing Sing or ryker's right now

BobbyTheDon · #21 05-03-2006, 01:23 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
I told you about that guy I knew who made his girlfriend do jumping jacks and punched her in the stomach because she wouldn't abort, abort, abort the mission right?

-Rudey
--He's probably in Sing Sing or ryker's right now

Oh dude. There was this gir right. She was about 18, but she still played with cabbage patch dolls. But her mom told her, "listen, you are too old to be playing wtih cabbage patch doll, only way you're gonna get told somethin like that is if u get preggers".

So what did she do? She grabbed her best guy friend (who eventually turned gay) and had sex. She got preggers. Now her little baby isn't a baby anymore

PiKA2001 · #22 05-03-2006, 01:24 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
I told you about that guy I knew who made his girlfriend do jumping jacks and punched her in the stomach because she wouldn't abort, abort, abort the mission right?

-Rudey
--He's probably in Sing Sing or ryker's right now

He had it all wrong, you have to make your girlfriend push your car down the street.

mulattogyrl · #23 05-03-2006, 01:30 PM

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Originally posted by tld221
are you serious?

no, really, are you serious?

No, FOR REAL THOUGH.

You guys have GOT to be kidding me. Really. No, seriously. If you all don't know any woman who's had a child before marriage that has been successful, you guys need to get out and meet more people. For real. I have many friends who are single moms and are college educated. I'm a single parent and I have a Masters Degree. I am not the exception to anyone's rule.

Go make more friends, people. I'll be your friend.

Rudey · #24 05-03-2006, 01:31 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Oh dude. There was this gir right. She was about 18, but she still played with cabbage patch dolls. But her mom told her, "listen, you are too old to be playing wtih cabbage patch doll, only way you're gonna get told somethin like that is if u get preggers".

So what did she do? She grabbed her best guy friend (who eventually turned gay) and had sex. She got preggers. Now her little baby isn't a baby anymore

http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1808630455/info

That's a movie about a girl that gets pregnant early in life. It sucks as a movie and I bet if a girl watched it, she'd get so scared she'd have to take xanax or something to calm down. But then she wouldn't bring babies home anymore!

-Rudey

33girl · #25 05-03-2006, 01:34 PM

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Originally posted by Taualumna
I think wealthy, better-educated girls are also more likely to use contraception.

Which isn't always foolproof. Someone has to be that 56/100ths of a per cent. That's why I was so shocked when I found out about the girl in my example, not because I was shocked they were having sex but because I assumed they would use contraception. But like I said, there are people who can do everything by the letter and still get pregnant.

Rudey, my digital TV synopsis says Pick Up Artist is a comedy. As to whether it's funny, that's your call.

uksparkle · #26 05-03-2006, 01:36 PM

I got pregnant and I'm not married. I was engaged when it happened. I had the baby in January, we are planning to get married in December. My family wasn't exactly thrilled, but what could they do? I'm engaged and have been with the guy for years. I'd hardly consider myself white trash, poor, etc.

uksparkle · #27 05-03-2006, 01:37 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
Which isn't always foolproof. Someone has to be that 56/100ths of a per cent. That's why I was so shocked when I found out about the girl in my example, not because I was shocked they were having sex but because I assumed they would use contraception. But like I said, there are people who can do everything by the letter and still get pregnant.

Rudey, my digital TV synopsis says Pick Up Artist is a comedy. As to whether it's funny, that's your call.

I was on birth control for over 6 years and I still got pregnant. It for sure isn't foolproof.

Rudey · #28 05-03-2006, 01:39 PM

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Originally posted by uksparkle
I got pregnant and I'm not married. I was engaged when it happened. I had the baby in January, we are planning to get married in December. My family wasn't exactly thrilled, but what could they do? I'm engaged and have been with the guy for years. I'd hardly consider myself white trash, poor, etc.

Did you drop out of school?

-Rudey

Rudey · #29 05-03-2006, 01:40 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
Which isn't always foolproof. Someone has to be that 56/100ths of a per cent. That's why I was so shocked when I found out about the girl in my example, not because I was shocked they were having sex but because I assumed they would use contraception. But like I said, there are people who can do everything by the letter and still get pregnant.

Rudey, my digital TV synopsis says Pick Up Artist is a comedy. As to whether it's funny, that's your call.

That's rare and that's when you make her push a car down the street with a sock in her mouth!!!

-Rudey

uksparkle · #30 05-03-2006, 01:40 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
Did you drop out of school?

-Rudey

No, I was done with college before I got pregnant.