Going through recruitment

[mikewozowski]

als463 - if you are a typical example of the "sorority girl" (or what a sorority girl grows up to be (and, actually, i don't think you are), i don't know who would want to be one!

your responses are just rude. there is a difference between "telling it like it is" and rude, and YOU are the latter.

so many people here talk about being polite by going to all parties to which you are invited and such and knowing what (and what not!) to talk about, etc.

how did YOU ever get in a sorority.

or did you just turn into a bitter witch recently?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by mikewozowski

als463 - if you are a typical example of the "sorority girl" (or what a sorority girl grows up to be (and, actually, i don't think you are), i don't know who would want to be one!

your responses are just rude. there is a difference between "telling it like it is" and rude, and YOU are the latter.

so many people here talk about being polite by going to all parties to which you are invited and such and knowing what (and what not!) to talk about, etc.

how did YOU ever get in a sorority.

or did you just turn into a bitter witch recently?

You are that which you despise. Shut up.

[kddani]

Originally Posted by mikewozowski

als463 - if you are a typical example of the "sorority girl" (or what a sorority girl grows up to be (and, actually, i don't think you are), i don't know who would want to be one!

your responses are just rude. there is a difference between "telling it like it is" and rude, and YOU are the latter.

so many people here talk about being polite by going to all parties to which you are invited and such and knowing what (and what not!) to talk about, etc.

how did YOU ever get in a sorority.

or did you just turn into a bitter witch recently?

Who are you?

[bostongreek]

Originally Posted by als463

You took the words right out of my mouth. What medical program do you think you will get into with that GPA? I can tell you EXACTLY why you were cut from the sororities----your grades! I also find it a little funny that you already knew which sororities you wanted, maybe because you thought you were too good for the others so, you had one picked out that was right for you. With your class standing (even at a non-competitive school) and your horrible GPA, you would have been lucky to receive a bid to ANY sorority. Stop worrying about going Greek because at this rate, it ISN'T going to happen.

With a GPA that low, good luck getting into graduate school. Unless you have a severe learning disability, you are pretty much screwed in terms of finding a decent paying job or getting into graduate school, unless you attend a very prestigious university that may make up (a little) for your grades. Just, wow!

Did she piss in your cornflakes or something?

[33girl]

I don't think it was a question of thinking she was "too good" for the other 2 groups as they were the ones that cut her right off the bat anyway. That's honestly not always why someone wants one group over the other, especially at a school with only three groups. If it's that small of a system and you're an upperclassman, you would be kind of an idiot to NOT know which one you want going in. (However, that doesn't mean you should broadcast your preference.)

"Medical program" covers a myriad of things. She's not necessarily trying to be a brain surgeon.

Confusionn - it was a major faux pas to say "I know which sorority I want to be in." They cut you because they thought you meant someone else. They found out you meant them and decided to give you another chance. For whatever reason - could have been your grades, could have been something else - you didn't receive a bid. (p.s.: The fact that they had 3 girls drop that quickly after rush really isn't a good sign IMO - especially at such a small school.)

Your sorority ship has sailed. The system at your school is really too small to get out of this fix. Concentrate on doing well in school and find another extracurricular or two that you enjoy.

[mikewozowski]

"You are that which you despise. Shut up."

really!??! it is ok for als### to be rude and hateful, but it is not ok for me to point it out (which others have already, and THEY did not get not get ... more rude responses from other people.)

"who are you?"

what difference does it make. i am a poster just like you. do your opinions count more than mine?

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by kddani

Who are you?

Hmmm perpberry's bff?

[Nanners52674]

Originally Posted by mikewozowski

"You are that which you despise. Shut up."

really!??! it is ok for als### to be rude and hateful, but it is not ok for me to point it out (which others have already, and THEY did not get not get ... more rude responses from other people.)

"who are you?"

what difference does it make. i am a poster just like you. do your opinions count more than mine?

What you said was nothing like what ALS said or what people said in response to ALS' post. Different posts get different responses.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by mikewozowski

what difference does it make. i am a poster just like you. do your opinions count more than mine?

Yes.

[mikewozowski]

WOW! you are a bunch of gems!

i wish you were my SISTERS!!

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Idiot

"You are that which you despise. Shut up."

really!??!

Yes.

You've been on the board long enough to learn the quote feature.

[knight_shadow]

Who is this person, and why is s/he so invested in the OP's situation?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Nanners52674

What you said was nothing like what ALS said or what people said in response to ALS' post. Different posts get different responses.

Yeah and randoms don't get to engage in our back-and-forths.

[Nanners52674]

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

Who is this person, and why is s/he so invested in the OP's situation?

The father of a PNM.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by Nanners52674

The father of a PNM.

Unless he's the OP's father, I don't see why he's getting all butt-hurt.