Lame?

AKΨ_BRO@DSU · #1 07-16-2006, 07:27 PM

Ladies: Would you honestly consider a young man who doesn't drink, is drug-free and a virgin lame?

preciousjeni · #2 07-16-2006, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU

Ladies: Would you honestly consider a young man who doesn't drink, is drug-free and a virgin lame?

No, that sounds like pretty strong character to me.

Drolefille · #3 07-16-2006, 08:04 PM

Nope... sounds like my kind of guy.

My boyfriend fit all three of those when we started dating, as did I.

/not commenting on the current status five years later

tunatartare · #4 07-16-2006, 08:04 PM

How old is he?

AKΨ_BRO@DSU · #5 07-16-2006, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy

How old is he?

21 years old.

Your reples are refreshing but it doesn't seem like a lot of women do appreciate it. It sucks being different.

tunatartare · #6 07-16-2006, 10:05 PM

then no, not lame

AKΨ_BRO@DSU · #7 07-16-2006, 10:12 PM

LOL, what age would have made it lame?

tunatartare · #8 07-16-2006, 10:14 PM

If you're like 34 and are still a virgin, then usually that's a sign of something.

Drolefille · #9 07-16-2006, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU

21 years old.

Your reples are refreshing but it doesn't seem like a lot of women do appreciate it. It sucks being different.

The general opinion I get from my friends is that they'd definately rather date the "clean" guy, and the virgin thing can go one way or the other. A virgin is almost certainly not going to have STDs, and if he decides to change his status, he won't have picked up any bad habits... so to speak.

AKΨ_BRO@DSU · #10 07-16-2006, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille

The general opinion I get from my friends is that they'd definately rather date the "clean" guy, and the virgin thing can go one way or the other. A virgin is almost certainly not going to have STDs, and if he decides to change his status, he won't have picked up any bad habits... so to speak.

Yeah that's true

kddani · #11 07-17-2006, 08:42 PM

This is your original question, asking for our opinions:

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU

Ladies: Would you honestly consider a young man who doesn't drink, is drug-free and a virgin lame?

You were given some opinions, now you're trying to argue with them and convince us otherwise. This is EXACTLY what would turn me off from someone who doesn't drink or have sex-this preachiness.

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And all I'm saying is that I'm not dependant on alcohol to do so. If it is possible for a person who drinks to have a good time without doing so, then why drink?

You're entitled to your opinions, but we're entitled to ours that it's a turn off to be lectured or questioned with something like this.

You gave very limited information. You said virgin, no drinking and no drugs. We have no choice but to make an assumption. No, I personally wouldn't date the guy. Might he be lame? Perhaps, that's not a word I usually use to describe people. I'd probably just say hey, whatever floats your boat, but it's not for me.

I can respect someone's personal decisions, but that doesn't mean that I think that they're compatible with mine.

AKΨ_BRO@DSU · #12 07-17-2006, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by kddani

This is your original question, asking for our opinions:

You were given some opinions, now you're trying to argue with them and convince us otherwise. This is EXACTLY what would turn me off from someone who doesn't drink or have sex-this preachiness.

You're entitled to your opinions, but we're entitled to ours that it's a turn off to be lectured or questioned with something like this.

You gave very limited information. You said virgin, no drinking and no drugs. We have no choice but to make an assumption. No, I personally wouldn't date the guy. Might he be lame? Perhaps, that's not a word I usually use to describe people. I'd probably just say hey, whatever floats your boat, but it's not for me.

I can respect someone's personal decisions, but that doesn't mean that I think that they're compatible with mine.

I not trying to disrespect you opinion, as I stated before, I'm just trying to understand where people with different values are coming from. I'm giving my perspective on things just like you are. There's a differance between debating and arguing...never once did I claim that my way of doing things is the absolute right way and your way is bad. But the questions that i am asking is based off of my values and are specific to them. Like I said, I can't help how you recieve the questions that I ask but my intensions are just to have a mature debate about what people value in the opposite sex.

Karine · #13 07-18-2006, 03:55 PM

I love guys like that. Don't get wasted so actually remember things, didn't sleep with half the campus!!! I don't think it is lame at all.

ThetaLove · #14 07-29-2006, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU

Ladies: Would you honestly consider a young man who doesn't drink, is drug-free and a virgin lame?

Nope, I wouldn't call another person lame for their decisions. Only you know what is right for yourself.

Very hard to find these days (both men and women)

Jimmy Choo · #15 07-29-2006, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU

Ladies: Would you honestly consider a young man who doesn't drink, is drug-free and a virgin lame?

Drug-free for me is a non-negotiable.
Non-drinkers.... I don't want someone who is a fallin' down drunk but if you can't have a glass of wine or a beer every now and then.....
Virgin: it depends on age. If you're 20, then it's no big deal. If you're 30, that's another story. I don't know if I would use the word lame but I might use the word weird!