Lame?
 

Ladies: Would you honestly consider a young man who doesn't drink, is drug-free and a virgin lame?

No, that sounds like pretty strong character to me.

How old is he?

Nope... sounds like my kind of guy.

My boyfriend fit all three of those when we started dating, as did I.

/not commenting on the current status five years later

21 years old.

Your reples are refreshing but it doesn't seem like a lot of women do appreciate it. It sucks being different.

then no, not lame

LOL, what age would have made it lame?

If you're like 34 and are still a virgin, then usually that's a sign of something.

what? aside from not getting laid?

The general opinion I get from my friends is that they'd definately rather date the "clean" guy, and the virgin thing can go one way or the other. A virgin is almost certainly not going to have STDs, and if he decides to change his status, he won't have picked up any bad habits... so to speak.

Gaaaawd, I hope it won't be THAT long (lol)...but I guess the only thing it would show is that the person is that way for a reason, mostly likely of their own choosing.

Yeah that's true

A sign of not finding the right person yet? I know someone older than 34 that is still a virgin because he has chosen not to give himself to a person that he doesn't intend to marry.

I would never date him....seems like he is too clean-cut for me....I like people can drink responsibly in a social situation and have a good time....I find guys like him do not mix with my social responsibilities of my job.

Our lifestyles wouldn't mesh at all, so I wouldn't date him...but I don't think I'd think he was lame.