How long should you be "talking?"

[WVU alpha phi]

Originally posted by RUgreek
Ok, i'm going to be the brutal one again, because this is crazy. He comes over, tells you to go fuck youself, the following night you STILL fool around with him, and you call him confusing, finally actually fanatasizing about him screwing around with other women.

You need to get a fresh dose of self-esteem because I don't see one g-d damn reason why you should shed one tear over this guy. However, I am not you and don't know the circumstances of this relationship besides what you post. My problem is why ladies subject themselves to torture after they say they are through?

This is not over, I am predicting a cooling off period followed by some makeup sex. He'll seduce you with the magic words that you want to believe and the cycle of mental anguish will continue.

Look, being alone doesn't have to be you and a bag of chips on the couch. So you broke up with a guy, get off your ass and keep yourself busy. The fact that you excuse his behavior so quickly (regardless of his drunkeness) is a sign that you are not really following your heart yet.

Damn, some of you girls are way too needy...

I'm sorry, by saying "I can only imagine what happened with those strippers.." I didn't mean I was fantasizing, more like saying I didn't want to know. But one of my sisters is their sweetheart and was there that night and told me John didn't even really pay attention to them.

I think you're right though that I am quick to make excuses for his behavior. I'm going to try my hardest to seperate myself from him because I'm getting pretty sick of questioning his moves left and right.