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Originally posted by abaici
Seriously ladies, are we looking for perfection? I can say that I'm not. What's perfect to the world, may not "fit" my needs.
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Nope. The man that I believe to be my soulmate is the exception to almost all of my rules. He does not meet my height requirement, he can't dance (and that makes me so very sad, he can't even dance a little bit), he doesn't like to travel, he doesn't like to read, he's very introverted, he watches too much TV, he is not the best communicator . . . I could go on and on. But I love (and always have loved) his character. I love who he is and what he stands for. And most importantly, I love that he loves Yah. Funny how he is the man that I've compared all of the men I have dated to. Yet even he falls short of what would be my "perfect" man. At one time, his hair was longer than mine and I used to SWEAR that I would NEVER date a man whose hair was longer than mine. Yet another exception to my rule (and I had the nerve to think it was sexy, too). I remember in undergrad EVERYONE thought his roommate was so fine and people had SO many things to say about him - he used to have a small, benign "tumor" on his neck and people CLOWNED about that. I could have cared less. He has adenoid problems so people talked about how he breathed... I mean, all types of little inconsequential type of stuff. Who cares? When you find that person that you truly love and care for, all that makes not even the slightest difference.
So no, I'm not looking for perfection. I don't believe that perfection exists in human form, so to look for it would be futile.
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