Thank you for bumping this thread!!! I hope everyone on GC has a wonderful holiday! Especially to those that have had trouble or stress lately in the family. I wish my dad would read this and actually get the hint. My grandfather is not doing so well and my dad just kinda ignores that and goes on. So I'm glad I read this tonight....just so I remembered. B/c sometimes its hard....even though it shouldn't be.
And James...... I adore you! You are a good guy even though you try really hard at hiding it.