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Originally posted by dphies00
These don't sound like issues, just endings that you're not happy with. You're asking us, should you let these sleeping dogs lie or change their outcomes so that Caleb falls in love with you and/or you find the random guy to live happily every after? Sounds a little bit like the Lady or the Tiger...
Two, sex is obviously important to you. You enjoy it and have definately opinions about how it should go down (see: comments of size, etc.) Are you sure a virgin is a great match with you at this point in your life? There is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex, whether you want to get down in a relationship or a one night stand. Caleb is definately going to feel very differently about sex and all the latter bases that come before a home run. He might know nothing about what happened with you that night, but you and him might not match up when it comes to your own beliefs about sex before marriage - and these opinions are a huge part of relationship and differing opinions can be a huge stress on a relationship.
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I completely agree! Don't waste your time with someone who isn't going to love you for the WHOLE you. I understand that Caleb's probably a great guy, but there's a difference between great guy and great guy for YOU.
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