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Originally posted by James
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...The BF said that the brother she had been with was bragging and telling everyone what a freak she was in bed. In other words, a very different story than her experience. ...
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Granted we're all hearing this second-hand so we have no idea what has actually been said by the guy but if this is the attitude he has, then I definitely believe that a written apology is in order. And I still stand by my belief that he needs to see a counselor (even if it's just one session) and present an educational to his entire chapter about Rape. If he can change even just a few guys' attitudes about it, then it would help. It's going to be difficult because his fraternity brothers are more likely going to believe him over a "drunk chick" that many of them may not know personally. (I know that's not always the case, but I'm just being realistic.)
I hope your friend is doing okay as she continues to process what happened.