Queencece~~~
Do not take these young men's advice lightly... They do know some things about life and relationships... And if you detailed to them exactly what is going on, they probably could call it just like I called it...
James' way is more blunt that most fellow's on the board with relationships... But he is usually on point in that regard... And I think he has some training in the field of relationships...
Rudey provides some comic relief to make you feel better about your situation... It is just his way... If you read what he writes, then laugh, you will find he pegged you and your situation pretty accurately... It is just his humorous good nature about him... And really, he's a big pushover, soft, warm-hearted teddy bear when it comes to this sort of thing
So, just go with the flow...
Just like others are telling you--get out while you can...
Really, you have only invested a small piece of your heart... And it really wasn't stomped on and crapped all over... And the guy is letting you off--easy... But, if you let him keep playing you, then that just goes to show you, that your are his "playgirl"... And not the real deal...
I seriously doubt you are the "real deal" girl--or the Sunday girl he takes to Church (as my folks say)... And I KNOW he is probably playing you big time... That is what dudes do, after you curse they asses out for evading, lying or catching them on crap they know they did to you was wrong... Period...
Get out while you can...
James and Rudey
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