The one thing that made me go
was:
Ex-boytoy: "Would you give up your dream job to travel [God knows where to . . . as in Podunk, USA] for my calling as a youth minister?"
Moi: "Hell no!"
Ex-boytoy: "Well, that's not fair!"
Moi: "Well, let me ask you the same question. 'Would you be content on living in a big city, such as NYC, for my career?'"
Ex-boytoy: "No."
Moi: "OK. Now you know how I'd feel."
Ex-boytoy: "Well, the wife should follow her husband around and make all of the compromises."
Moi:
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