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Originally posted by Dionysus
Ok, let me give some background on this.
I'm kind of like the newbie of this group, I knew them for awhile, but I just started hanging out with these people around a month ago. I can tell already that I will NOT get along with this person. S/he is extremely uptight and condescending. This girl thinks she's the epitome of morality (one of the reasons why she is so obnoxious), so I think it will be kind of hard to trick her into doing something shady. Of course, that can be a cover-up, but I don't want to take the chance. She does seem easily provoked though. At this point, I think direct confrontation will backfire. You guys know this from being in fraternity and sororities. What do you think of rushees who directly challenge older and respected members? That doesn't go over too well.
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It always depends on the situation in my experience. I'd be concerned with doing it and not having to feel like I just manipulated the people I want to call my friends. That's dishonest and dishonorable -- and personally, I'd never go for it. If I was a person in this group, I would also be very pissed at you if you did something dishonest and dishonorable along those lines.
Just be honest. Say, I don't feel comfortable hanging out with y'all when she's around because I just can't stand that holier than thou attitude. Who knows, a few of them might just agree with you.
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