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Old 07-27-2004, 02:29 PM
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there there honey. breathe and relax. smiley will make it all go away


I've been feeling like Collin Farrel in the movie "the recruit" while I beat the crap out of the punching bag at the gym. Smiley needs to send me a pm cheering me up.
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Old 07-27-2004, 02:29 PM
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The way I see it, if you need counseling before you're married...there's no way shit is going to work.
Actually, more and more couples are going to pre-marital counseling. I think it's required in some States. It helps to iron out any issues before marriage to make the relationship more stable. There is no relationship out there that couldn't use a little bit of work. The therapist is there to help resolve differences and teach the couple how to deal with problems constructively. Research has shown that couples who had pre-marital counseling have a much lower divorce rate.
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Old 07-27-2004, 02:43 PM
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Actually, more and more couples are going to pre-marital counseling. I think it's required in some States. It helps to iron out any issues before marriage to make the relationship more stable. There is no relationship out there that couldn't use a little bit of work. The therapist is there to help resolve differences and teach the couple how to deal with problems constructively. Research has shown that couples who had pre-marital counseling have a much lower divorce rate.


Ever seen how to loose a guy in 10 days? Something like that, right? If I've done nothing wrong...how would that help me?
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Old 07-27-2004, 03:08 PM
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she really is a bitch. pre-marital counseling is bullshit in this case. she's obviously got some serious mental issues. pre-marital counseling isnt going to change her mind about things. its going to take some counseling on her part to make her realize she's not her mother and her mother is wrong. i can relate to her with the bad parent thing (it is my dad) because it f's with my thinking a lot. when a parent thinks a certain way you cant help but to wonder if theyre right. but i realized that i was lucky and if i turned into that, i'd lose him. she needs help. cashmoney...help her. if you love her, try to make her see whats going on and how wrong her mother is. if her mother hates her so much then why is she being a kissass and acting like her? to please her.
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Old 07-27-2004, 04:16 PM
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Miss cashmoney starts to see how far she can have me wrapped around her finger and how much power she has over me in a sense. She puposely tries to make me go back on something I'm standing firm on just to see if she can get me do what she wants....no matter how firm I am about something. And whats worse is that she admits to it and tells me thats what she was trying to do, which is like a double slap in the face.
You basically just described 99.9% of the women in this country.
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Old 07-27-2004, 04:39 PM
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I'm sorry about your troubles.

But look for the silver lining here, isn't it better that you are realizing this now and are out a diamond ring, rather than end up in a miserable marriage that would probably end in divorce and have you paying out the nose in alimony??
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Old 07-27-2004, 06:35 PM
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Everyone should just be single anyway.
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Old 07-27-2004, 06:41 PM
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Everyone should just be single anyway.
Yeah!!!
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Old 07-27-2004, 10:20 PM
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You basically just described 99.9% of the women in this country.


I don't want to believe that, but for some reason I'm inclined to side with you. That actually worries me. All that tells me is most of the married men out there are all pussy whipped and they're wives run them. I'm seriously wondering if thats how shit really is in married life. But then you have people like my parents, where the man wears the pants. Like my dad said, either you put her in her place or you leave her. One thing I noticed right off the bat when I began dating her....the women in her family all try/do wear the pants in their marriages.
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Old 07-27-2004, 10:23 PM
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I'm sorry about your troubles.

But look for the silver lining here, isn't it better that you are realizing this now and are out a diamond ring, rather than end up in a miserable marriage that would probably end in divorce and have you paying out the nose in alimony??



I've been going to the gym 2 times a day....its helping a bit. But yea, its better to go through this now than 5 yrs and 1 kid later. Its sucks though, I'm still paying that ring off. You have any idea how much a 2 kt diamond ring costs these days? Phucking ridiculous.
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Old 07-27-2004, 10:27 PM
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Everyone should just be single anyway.


I need a booty call.
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Old 07-27-2004, 10:29 PM
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I need a booty call.
Yeah they're nice until they go crazy.
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Old 07-28-2004, 12:10 AM
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Maybe I'm terrible for focusing on this, but why don't you get the ring back?

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Old 07-28-2004, 12:13 AM
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I need a booty call.
Booty calls are therapeutic and definitely the way of the cougar.
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Old 07-28-2004, 12:20 AM
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we still luff you Cash!
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