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07-27-2004 01:56 PM |
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Originally posted by ZTAngel
What happened??? What did she do?
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Long Story. Lets just say she did some really fucked up shit and I didnt even realize it until people from "outside the box" let me know how bad things really were, my parents included. According to her mother I'm good for nothing other than giving her a nice house and a nice lifestyle. Its a combination of things she's did to me/said to me/expected of me along with her mentality changing to that of her mother's. Her mother is a selfish bitch, told her she was a mistake and that she feels like she missed out on everything in life because miss cashmoney was born.....her mother is married to a man she's not in love with and the list goes on and on. And so since it's her mother she's begining to take on her mentality....as well as all her faults. Seriously, the woman has major issues. For example, I'm the bad guy because I didnt come and help her family remodel their house before they moved into it. I'm also the bad guy becuse I don't offer to help her mother clean her house when I'm visiting. I'm also the bad guy because I'm supposedly stealing her daughter. I'm also the bad guy because I havent made the initial effort to kiss her mother's ass and sort of apologize for not being her little bitch...despite the fact that I havent done anything wrong. What it all boils down to is, her mother doesnt like me because I remind her of miss cashmoney's father to a point to where it's scary....and since her mother feels like she's had such a shitty life and a shitty marriage, I'm therefore not good enough for her daughter other than for money and now miss cashmoney is starting to buy into her mother's own bullshit. So what happens? Miss cashmoney starts to see how far she can have me wrapped around her finger and how much power she has over me in a sense. She puposely tries to make me go back on something I'm standing firm on just to see if she can get me do what she wants....no matter how firm I am about something. And whats worse is that she admits to it and tells me thats what she was trying to do, which is like a double slap in the face. She tells me that I dont do enough to help her family.....despite the fact that I've already gone in to business with one of her uncles to help get the exporting business offf the ground.
What I've realized is....her mother is basically telling her to wear the pants in the relationship or else its going to be a living hell. And thats exactly what she's been trying to do for the past 2 weeks. It got to the point where she told me this is how its going to be and that I needed to change and be like this.....and that if I loved her enough I would do all of it along with all the bullshit with her mother....it was too much. All my friends and family were in shock when I told them whats been going on. Everyone says that shit isnt normal and that it sounded like i was marrying into the mafia. Its all fucked up and now I'm out of a 2 kt diamond ring. I just couldnt handle going into a family where I know the mother will never accept me. I hate the fact that I can stand right there in front of her mother and be talking to her and she has this big smile on her face and is always nice to me...but then behind my back she does nothing but talk shit about me. Everyone else in her family adores me except her mother. Literally, I've done nothing wrong to her...she's the first girl I've been totally right with and never cheated on.
Believe me, there's so much more to this story but I dont have the time nor do I want to get in my personal life very much on a public message board.....am I hurting? Very much so. Can I do anything about it? No. I told her I want nothing to do with her until she changes...she comes back with "You're the one that needs to do the changing." When she said that, I knew there was no hope. The way I look at it...she fucked up big time. She doesnt realize it now...but very soon she will.
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