I may have found the tiara I've been looking for:
With all these counseling sessions, all of my plans are up in the air! I do know that, since I'm getting married for a second time (although this will be mr. honeychile's first), I want to get married at Christmastime - the church will already be decorated to a frenzy!
I only know of one attendant who I'll have

but I told her that, when we see a certain color of deep blue in a dress that flatters her, we'll jump on it! Last year, I saw *the* dress for her, but couldn't get in touch to get her size! It was a fairly plain, deep blue velvet, ballet neckline dress. It was mid-calf, but since she's short, that will work out fine! Mr. honeychile's eldest sister's step-granddaughters are just too adorable not to include, and I think they could find something similar without much problem.
For flowers, I want magnolias & pink roses. I haven't seen a photo that does that justice yet, but I know what I want.
My dress will be the hardest, as it's based on my favorite cocktail dress. I want a two tones of white (white, and not-quite off-white?). The basic dress will be almost a sheath, and over that, I'd like a chiffon jacket, cut almost like a feminine riding habit, only with a slightly ruffled lapel & back waist. Does that make sense, or should I try to drag out a photo of my cocktail dress?
I'm scared that I'm jinxing things by even saying this much!
PS - we got engaged at Orlando, too!