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Originally posted by UpPinkies
I just read this twice and have to give props to your friend.
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Soror,
I love your sig! Yes, it was a good year.
I also agree that her friend had the right thing in mind by actively placing herself in a position to meet people (I believe that it's primarily a numbers game).
I am also broadening my horizons in terms of the men that I am willing to date now. He doesn't have to be a cutie, just attractive enough and well-groomed, and he can be in his mid- or maybe even late-thirties (I'll be 30 in July), no problem. The nerds are also welcomed. Girl, a sister is looking for STABILITY with a capital "S" and if he can provide that and treat me well then the other things don't matter as much anymore.
Also, wrt some of the content of the other posts, I would like to add that I don't necessarily think that older men have it like that to wait years and years either to have children. Personally, I am a little leery of having children with a man who is *much* older b/c I want him to be around to hopefully see that child graduate college, etc. So it's not always an older man's pick of the litter if other women feel this way as well.
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