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Originally posted by maggieaxid
I am kinda in a similar situation except I am the one moving down to where my ex lives (well about an hr away). Granted, he and I have a very sorted past, but we have become good friends and talk all the time and we have also had conversations about the demise of our relationship and admitted our mistakes. it was a great way to get closure and we both even admit that there is still a spark there.
So in my opinion, chat with him and then met up with him for lunch or something. It may feel weird at first, but eventually I think it's well worth it!
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Well I did talk to him again (several times actually) and we agreed to be friends and even talked about "US" and what we remember and what we did wrong. We even had an "question and answer" section.
We made each other feel really good and admitted that if we would have stayed together we would have been miserable and hated each other. Plus we said we might be get back together and been happy or just be friends and be happy. It does not matter just as long as we are happy.
I feel so much better that I talked to him.
Thanks to every one.
Chris
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