I do believe respect is a two-way street. BUT, the older members should receive certain courtesy's. Our National Visitor was here during rush last year, and she had to go into another sorority's room during break to speak with their advisor, they
all stood up for her. They sat down when they realized she wasn't one of their alums, but still! That is how it should be out of respect for the alums. I respected the older sisters/alums when I was in college, but now it seems most of them really don't care unless they feel like they aren't being respected! Guess I sound like my grandfather and his "kids today...." speech
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