how long do you wait?

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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
I've never been one for seemingly "meaningless" sex, so...

For me, I believe in waiting until I am at a point in a relationship where I see it as a very distinct possibility that he could be a part of my life in a long-term sense... I'm not saying that we have to be talking about marriage or anything, but if not, I have to at least like the idea of sharing my life with him. And if I know there is no way that I could spend my life with him, I shouldn't do it.

Also, we have to have had "the talk" - where have you been with who, have you been tested, what will we do about birth control, what are your views on pro-choice/pro-life, how would we deal with things if there was an issue, etc...

Is it bad that I won't wait more than a week or two for a girl to dish out before I'll go looking for one that will?