Why you didn't make it into a sorority.

[sairose]

Originally posted by 33girl
did you not read my last post or James' original post??????? That is EXACTLY what we said.

Read what the original point of this thread was, not the path it has taken.

Uh...sorry I was so slow to reply....but I'm totally confused. my post was referring to James' original post. I do agree that, many times, if you do not get a bid, there was a good reason for it. GLOs have the right to extend a bid only to people they feel would be an asset to their chapter.

However, what I meant was that sometimes there is a girl who would have made a FANTASTIC member, but for whatever reason, she didn't get a bid. Perhaps she was too shy during rush. Maybe her best qualities didn't happen to shine through. Her grades might not have been high enough. Whatever. Does that mean they didn't deserve to be in a sorority? Of course not. Sororities have to base membership selection on what they see. And I totally understand that. But it's hurtful to say they shouldn't have gotten a bid.