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Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
So you would propose that a woman should remain in a marriage even if she's being abused? Or should marry a man who is abusing her simply because she got pregnant and wants to keep her child?
While being married is a great dream, no woman (or her children) should be subjected to that. And yes, I am a domestic violence organization volunteer, I know a bit about what I'm talking about.
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Parenting clases should be required and financial stability.
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I don't think that is what she was getting at that at all. Just because she thinks people should not have kids unless they are married, it is not the same thing as saying they have to get married at all costs. I think to say she was saying that women should stay or accept abusive relationships in the name of getting married or having kids is a big leap.
I personally agree that the ideal stable relationship for having kids is a good marriage. An abusive marriage is not a good marriage and clearly is not a good environment for anyone, especially a child.
I do agree that having serious open communication about beliefs and values and expectations is mandatory. It is amazing how many people do get married and never discussed financial goals, toughs about children, etc.
Financial stability and a financial plan. You do not need to have a lot of money, just enough money and good money management skills (which I am still working on)
Coping skills and parenting classes.
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