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Originally posted by ThetaPrincess24
Have any of you ever had problems with your big sis or lil sis?
My big sis and lil sis no longer talk to me. They both quit Theta this semester, yet still think of themselves as good Thetas.... Since they became my big and my lil i have always envisioned them being in my wedding 
I was wondering what other Thetas here thought about this situation.
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Mary-
Wish I could give you a big sister (( hug ))
First, I have been thinking about your situation for a while, trying to figure out how to answer without sounding like an old lady ;-)
From the Theta side of me, I have to say that if Theta meant so little to these girls, I don't know if they are worthy of your heartache. I know they wouldn't be to me. They threw away something that is precious and meaningful to me and I am sure to you, too. I meant it when I took my vows. I don't know that they valued what Theta offered to them very seriously. I don't see them as any part of Theta, much less "good Thetas". This is just the thought I have after reading what you explained about them... I may sound pretty harsh, but that's my thought.
Second, believe it or not, I still remember all the dreams I had for years about my wedding. I made a lot of them come true. This dream about your sorority sisters being your bridesmaids sounds lovely, but things change. Life changes. Things happen. People grow up & apart. Try not to put too much of that wedding dream into "semi-hard-concrete" while you are still in college. Life has a way of giving you a kick in the butt if you plan too hard.
Take care
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