Bros, Sorors and Sisterfriends,
Not all abusive men are thugs! BUT let us keep it real. A lot of people put up with a lot of Stuff for the sake of the relationship. Need an example.....let us say when going through a process that we have gone through there was always a time when it came out of our mouth saying "THese Guys have one more time before I flip on them" and guess what.....we never flipped on them! Why because he was willing to tolerate it to reach an ultamite goal. To some women the relationship is the ultamite goal. A man is an abuser he will remain an abuser. I think the real reason black women go for thugs is 2 fold: 1. They need that strong sence of security that thug provides knowing he won't be punked out by other people 2. There is a challange to say he is thugged out with everyone else except the one he is with because they have him "on lock". Guess what ladies....if he is thugged out with everyone else, curses and disrespects on the street(not saying all thugs do this) but he will do it with you most of the time.
The Sphinxpoet
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