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Originally posted by Glitter650
However I would hate to think that people who would make great sisters are being turned away just becasue they weren't "trendy" enough or weighed too much when they passed through the invisible scale at the front door.. (rumor I heard about one of the houses at UCLA, which I know is untrue... but the judging eyes of sisters may as well be a scale sizing up these women sometimes)
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I like your 'imganinary scale' reference. I can honestly say that I've been guilty of judging a PNM by her cover, but quickly realized that someone who doesn't look like the typical 'sorority girl', can be the best damn sister you've ever had! We had a perfect example! She didn't have 'the look', but she held our schools Panhel pres position for TWO years. Not only that, but she's been one of the most active alumna...I hear about her all the time! More women need to remember, that there is more than what your group looks like from the outside.
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