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Originally posted by Dewgirl:
I think the practices vary from GLO to GLO. My sorority has NO provision for letting anyone know any of our secrets. When I dated a Pike (Pi Kappa Alpha) I was allowed to wear his letters almost immediately, but not allowed to know any secret knowledge. A friend of mine is lavoliered into another fraternity and probably knows the ritual better than the brothers, but isn't allowed to wear letters except for a necklace. so it varies..I think fraternities are actually a little more open to it than sororities, since most of them lavolier.
[This message has been edited by Dewgirl (edited August 11, 2000).]
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We have similar information for a reason, Dewgirl-- I dated a Pike for a year. I was not permitted to wear letters until we were "ready to get engaged", but that differs amongst chapters from what I understand. One Pike came up to visit last weekend and his girlfriend of a week was allowed to wear his letters.
Having a boyfriend in a fraternity, though, I think you're bound to find out at least a few things that you're probably not supposed to know... unless the man and his brothers are overly cautious about what they say.
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