It all goes back to the "process" of becoming a member-- and no I am not talking about hazing.
An old school soror (195?) who explained to me that once you made your sorority intentions known --there was a semester of "observation" this was a time during which them members of XWZ sorority watched you in both formal and informal settings and basically decided if you were 'worthy'..
Then there was a semester of pledging.. and from what she told me there was no hitting and such foolishness...but they were taught the ins and out of social graces
So in a nutshell we are not teaching our new sorors that
DISCRETION is the KEY to Keep the unity when everyone knows out our bussiness goes
So discrestion means prudent knowing when to be silent....etc
Well I am sure some of you know the rest of the poem...
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IVY in my HAND-- AKA in my HEART
[This message has been edited by loviest95 (edited March 23, 2001).]
[This message has been edited by loviest95 (edited March 23, 2001).]
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