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hmm, i read the post as well and the more i think about it, the more i think that you should just ride it out. honestly, the person who wrote it was really upset. sometimes, people say/ do things when they are upset that they normally wouldn't do. for the poster, this allowed her to get out her anger and frustration. there are many places that this type of post would be inappropriate, but given that the PS is for sisters, i don't think it is that bad. also, i think that as sisters, we do need to be supportive. will talking to this person about how she shouldn't have said that make her feel better about phi mu, probably not. it will probably add to the resentment she already feels. this is one of those times, that i think you should just let it go. understand that she is upset (as i am sure that most of your chapter is) and that although she didn't handle it the way others did, that it was her way of dealing. sometimes the hardest thing to realize is that we all need to do things differently to handle the same situations.
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