it can work. i've been talking (that's probably the best way to put it) to a guy I went to high school with who now lives in North Carolina. It's not a high school thing (we didn't have an interest in each other until over a year after we graduated) and we just budgeted our time so we can talk every night. he's currently in Kuwait (at least I think he is) but our 9:00 conversations went on every night while he was still in the states and we always let the other know if we couldn't talk the next day. you just need lots of calling cards or free minutes after 9 pm/weekends on your cell and you need to care about the person enough to make thetime committment. 4 hours isn't as far away as you think it is.
no one at rush should be asking about your relationships with men unless you bring it up, and then they shouldn't care except to sympathize with you. they aren't a group of women you would want to call your sisters anyway if they cut you because you have a boyfriend who lives 4 hours away.
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