I am sad about this situation too and I don't even know the girl. I'm not trying to sound like a snob here, but a 22 year old grocery store employee who lives at home with his mother couldn't even get my phone number, let alone impregnate me. I don't care how nice he is.
Unfortunately, I have many friends that have terrible judgement where men are concerned. I have one friend in particular that got pregnant on her first date with her baby's father. This is the same guy that now beats her up, stole all of the stereo equipment and cds from her car and a few months later totaled her car. Why exactly is he still living in her house rent free? I don't have a clue. I have just gotten to the point where I don't want her to even discuss her problems with him to me anymore because after 6 years I think I have heard enough. I just had to accept the fact that this is the life she wants for herself and there is nothing I can do about it.
The good news is that your friend isn't the first woman to become a single mother of 2 children. It has been done before and I am sure she will be just fine. If your friend doesn't appear to be losing any sleep over her situation, then you don't need to lose any sleep over it either.
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