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Originally posted by librasoul22
I am gonna have to cosign on this and add:
Why do people get offended when xomichelle says being fat is ugly? Does xomichelle really matter in the grand scheme of things? Are you really worried that she thinks something is ugly?
I use that example to say this...you know, you can't please everyone. I am aware that not everyone is going to think I am super hot (although I happen to think so, lol). So why worry about things you can't control (i.e. people's perceptions of you)? I mean if YOU think you are ugly/fat/etc. then YOU should work on it. But don't do it because someone ELSE thinks so. Who cares? I am sure if we really wanted to we could find ugly things about everyone (except me, lol). But really, there are more important things to worry about.
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I think the point was that this thread was supposed to be 'Yay to all us girls who are not stick skinny. Yay to us for having curves, and you know what, if we're a little curvy or overweight, whatever we look hot anyway' ......it wasn't really meant to be a discussion about if its hot or not.....and then you get someone in here who's like " I think it's gross." I know she didn't say it like that but it was just kinda...not necessary, I dunno...maybe people do think that but it didn't have to be said. If you want to start a discussion about whether being curvy or overweight is hot or not, it should go in another thread. I know she wasn't the first one to do it and I'm not picking on her...but if people were getting worked up earlier in the thread obviously that would hurt too.
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