I believe, for many women, whether pretty or ugly, educated or not, it boils down to having low self esteem. They don't believe/know they deserve better. Many of these women do not/have never had the positive reinforcements needed to leave/avoid these types of relationships. Their low self worth is very apparent to men, who then take advantage of the situation. On the other hand, there are those of us who simply have bad judgement in men. We're human, thus we're entitled to mistakes...and mistakes are how we learn. Granted some of us learn the first time, but most have to be knocked down to really see the light. We have to go through the same things over and over until we get the lesson that God is trying to teach us. It's all a part of growing.
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