I'm also a "third time's the charm" member. I went to one sorority's informal recruitment the end of my freshman year, and was cut the first round. I was trying WAY too hard and in retrospect, was NOT a good fit. I went to another sorority's informal rrecruitment in the fall of my sophomore year. I REALLY thought I was a shoe-in, but it was not to be. I went thru Formal recruitment, and found my chapter....but I should say they found me. My roommate in freshman year pledged my chapter and I would NOT have ever thought of joining when she was going thru. I knew someone else who was pledging and my chapter was NOT my first choice at all. But they fell in love with me during recruitment and I ended up loving them.... We all find the place for us eventually, even if it takes a long time. I wouldn't have had it any other way...
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