Honey, I can understand why you're upset.
But bottom line, this is a gift they're giving you. Not a requirement. You can't make them pay for the rehersal dinner, and trying to make them will just damage your relationship with them further.
Jason knows what this means to you, and to him and the wedding. If he finds a way to introduce this in conversation with them somehow, then that's one thing -- but to fuss over it will cover up the fact that you're a high class, sophisticated girl with her priorities on straight. Be sugar sweet with them, kill 'em with kindness, whatever you need to do -- be the Phi Mu lady you are. I'm absolutely positive they'll come around -- after all, Jason was lucky enough to get you. What's not to thank God for?
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