Are you close to your Big/Lil?

Unfortunately, I'm not close with either my big or my little We had a random matching process too, based on seniority, and whether or not you'd ever had a little before... so I ended up with a big who was graduating that semester, planning a wedding, and whom I had nothing in common with. We hung out a little bit, but she didn't have much time or interest in really being involved anymore, and then she graduated and moved to... Idaho or something? just three weeks after I was initiated. I never heard from her again.

My little and I had a better chance, but we just didn't click. She was assigned to me my junior year, and while I was big into partying right then (I had just turned 21), she was very much the prim and proper girl, didn't like to go out, didn't "approve" of my antics, etc. We didn't have anything else in common, either... so while I made an effort to get to know her, we just never hit it off.