Lavaliers

Winterbloom · #1 12-23-2002, 09:18 PM

Hey ladies,

Does anyone know if we have any rules about our lavaliers? I'm getting ready to go abroad for a couple of months to Rome, and my young man and I were discussing a few things the other night. We're serious, but not serious enough for a diamond, and he's only in the beginning stages of pledging Sinfonia. I want to give him a lavalier, as I know it means a lot in other GLOs to whom I've been exposed.

So do we have any rules/traditions? I think this is a lovely, old-fashioned sort of thing, and very classy. Let me know, please?

Love and roses,

Emma

sairose · #2 12-24-2002, 06:18 PM

Hey sis,

I've never heard of a girl giving a guy a lavelier; only the other way around. Don't see why it couldn't be done, but I recommend e-mailing nationals to see what they think about it.

Good luck! Keep us posted!

kansas13 · #3 12-28-2002, 01:38 PM

I have always heard that girls, from any GLO, can not lavalier or pin any of their significant others. I do not know if this has changed though.

RedRoseSAI · #4 12-29-2002, 04:06 PM

Lavaliering is generally done by the guy, to the girl. Since it's a feminine piece of jewelry, I can't see a guy wearing it. Nationals doesn't have a policy on this (the closest thing is our policy on no sweethearts). You could still e-mail them and see what they have to say on the matter, though.

saisandy · #5 01-06-2003, 05:41 AM

Do you mean for him to wear our letters or you to wear his? From my understanding it is a huge deal - and sometimes frowned on if you swtich letters-something about not earning the right to wear it or something. But some fraternities to still drop girls- give them the fraternities letters to wear. But if you mean for him to buy you your letters and you him I don't think thats a big deal. Oh I was the sweetheart to a Phi Mu Alpha chapter and they said there was a policy were I could not wear their letters. Hope this helps