PLEASE don't wish she pledges. If she asks questions like this, we may have to 'pledge' her! (just kidding
).
Try introducing your woman/wife to other frat's wives; maybe she would then get the hint that she shouldn't be so nosy (they will school her, for sure
)!
My non-Greek husband asks questions sometimes and I just smile
then he knows to back off because if I wanted to answer his question then I would.
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Originally posted by justmyo:
Brother wait until you are married.I married a woman who attended schools where there were no greek organizations.Although she has a masters degree she still dosent know the greek alphabets.I just take it for granted that every College graduate know all the greek symbols.She questions everything the Frat does,I take her to every function we have and she still ask me questions about the meetings,what happened ,whp was there,why can't she attend.She always ask why we are so secret,why we have a secret handshake,why don't I show it to her.She dosen't understand the bond that we have even though we all went to different schools.( I'm active in a grad chapter)She accused me of putting the Frat before her.She wants to know why the brothers call and what we talked about.I'm praying that she finds out about one of the Sororities and gets invited to pledge.Ive talked to other newlywed brothers and their non-greek wives.But be tactful and explain why and the nature of greek letter organizations,I would never lie to her about anything concerning the Fraternity.I tell her simply that "membership has it's privilege."
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