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Originally posted by student81:
Let me start off by saying that I am not a member of any BGLO, but I would like to comment on the issue of loose lips sinking ships. I personally think certain things should remain between members of that particular organization and the members of that organization should be able to decide what is kept secret, however trivial some non-greeks (not me) may think those thing are. Now my grandfather is not a member of a BGLO but he is a Mason and has been one for over 30 years. He and my grandmother have been married for 36 years and he has revealed virtually nothing about that organization in those 36 years. Now does that bother her or the others in the family? No. What goes on between him and his brothers is between him and his brothers. My grandmother and I don't even ask questions about what goes on because I know he would never tell us and I would not disrespect him by asking him anything. He's earned his membership and the right to know what goes on in that organization, I haven't. Just my opinion.
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By not pushing those nosey-question buttons shows respect for him, and for the organization.
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