not too long ago, I emailed a guy that had some videos of us thatone of his brothers filmed. (WE weren't having SEX, but doing other stuff Sorry for TMI). I asked him to please get rid of them bc I may be going back to that school and if those videos get out they could reallyruin my rep and my sorority's rep. He replied and informed me that he had gotten rid of them. he said that he has changed alot and that isn't the kind of person he is and he doesn't want to be known like that. He told me to drop him a line if I ever felt like it. I believe that he hasgotten rid of the videos bc when I was hanging out with him he would never respond to emails even when they related to our group project. I'm glad that i emailed him bc he 1) did email me back 2) and wasn't a jerk at all 3) I can relax and not worry about the videos anymore.
Email her!