"All the world is a stage . . ."
Most guys
do become themselves which is usually boring and inept LOL.
So the guys that are themselves all the time are usually boring and inept!
True Suaveness is not a sometime-thing, its an all-the-time thing.
But seriously, yes its cool if the man/woman can be themselves, and that self is fun and interesting (in which case they don't need "game").
But for most people their "self" is neither fun nor interesting!
What I really hear you saying Librasoul, is
stop false advertising!
And there I feel your pain.
Some people are very adept at being cool and interesting for a few weeks, and then we waste months before we realize that they really aren't lol.
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Originally posted by librasoul22
Or they haven't thought about losing the game and being themselves. Isn't THAT a novel idea!
Seriously...I have fallen for suave guys just like the next woman. But game can only go so far, then you have to actually get to know the guy. And for some men, they work so hard on their game, but are lacking when it comes to a real personality. Game is cool if I am dancing with you at the club and you wanna practice it on me. But will it get my number? No.
Guys who wanna know what is the right approach? Sorry you are outta luck, because there isn't ONE right approach. When people say "be yourself," it may seem like a tired cliche, but it really isn't.
You want a woman to be real and genuine with you right? So why would you be anything less when approaching her?
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